Having the Conversation….
It’s not easy to talk about how we want our end of life to be. However, it is one of the most important conversations you can have with your loved ones.
All too often, family members are left to make choices and healthcare decisions on behalf of their loved one at a critical point in the healthcare journey. Unfortunately, these decisions are often made without warning and when emotions are overpowering. It is important to recognize that, unfortunately, advance care planning can come into play at any time in a person’s life. This is why the experts have coined the phrase; “it is always too early, until it is too late”.
According to a recent JAMA study, the majority of people over 65 years old have not discussed end of life issues with a physician (73%) and only 40% have documented their wishes. Furthermore, 68% of physicians reported not receiving training regarding end of life issues.
It is important for each of us to complete an advance directive form and other medical forms. No matter your age, this simple step can help relieve much burden and guilt on those closest to us. These forms must be accessible and updated over time.
But most importantly, take the time to talk with your loved ones about decisions related to your care. Encourage your patients and their family members to do the same. Visit the Conversation Project to learn more. The site offers a wealth of resources, videos and tools to get started. Make the commitment today to learn more and begin the conversation with your loved ones. As we gather together this holiday season, this may be the perfect opportunity to begin this important dialogue.
View the Tedx Video, presented by Ellen Goodman, as part of the Conversation Project. It is an excellent reminder on the importance of ‘having the conversation’ and some steps and tools to help you get started.
Additional resources and tools below that may be helpful are included below:
The Conversation Project
http://theconversationproject.org/
National Healthcare Decisions Day
http://www.nhdd.org/#welcome
Creating a Living Will
https://www.everplans.com/articles/what-you-need-to-know-about-creating-a-living-will